Married But Separated:  How To Handle An Unfaithful Spouse In 5 Steps

Married But Separated: How To Handle An Unfaithful Spouse In 5 Steps

The Common Problem

After encouraging thousands of married couples, this is a question we've found many still struggle with:

“My husband and I still live together, but consider ourselves separated. We are still having sex, yet he is still going out and talking to other women…maybe even messing around. When we are together we do ok, but because we are “separated” he still wants to do his thing too. I love my husband and want our marriage to work…what do I do?”

Whether you are living together, separated or married but living like roommates, it is tough to face the fact that your spouse isn't being faithful and the fact that you don’t know what to do about it. But one thing is for certain…loving your spouse when they are at their worst cannot be done without putting in work on YOU first.

Are You Blaming Me???

Before you slip on your sneakers and oil up your fists, no I am not blaming you for where your marriage is today. I will say however, the key to loving your spouse when they seem most unlovable takes God, wisdom, confidence and consistency…and then repeat. Think I am making light of this? Not at all because I too was in your shoes.

This process is not easy, but trust me, once you read the steps I have outlined for you to stand when your spouse is not faithful, you will see that my logic and reasoning makes total sense and are completely doable. These 5 steps will lead those motivated spouses in how to stand in love when their spouse is unfaithful. These steps will help anyone who is determined to stand for their marriage do so without losing themselves in the process. Let’s dive in.

Step #1-Set Some Boundaries.

boundaries 1Being motivated to love is not about standing in denial or desperation. It is not about letting your spouse walk all over you and you just roll over and take it. It is about FIRST becoming a healthy, whole and confident individual. Through that place of renewal, we study and learn about truth, unconditional love, grace and mercy through the example of Christ.

 

Use Wisdom.

Showing love and being honest about a situation doesn't mean we are to be unwise. You can love and still believe that restoration is possible without being physically intimate or letting your spouse know they cannot have it both ways. When David and I were going through our rough time, I had to let him know he must cut off the emotional affair he was having if we were going to be intimate in any way. Here is an example of the dialog you can have with your spouse about this matter:

“I love you and still believe we can reconcile at some point once we both get the healing and understanding we need individually. I don’t know exactly what is going on in your mind and heart, but I believe inside you are a faithful, strong and loving person who wants a life that is not filled with confusion. Because I know this I will continue to pray for myself, you and our marriage. But understand, you will not be physically intimate with me and this other person.

You will need to make a decision. I have made the decision to work on me and become a better me…for me. Again, I will continue to stand for us because that is a promise I made that I meant. I do apologize for any part I played in getting us to this point, but we will no longer sleep together and cross certain lines until you cut ties with this other person.”

You see this is an example of how you can set boundaries and still stand strong in love and grace.

Guilt Trip.

Please also beware of the fact that your spouse may try and hit you with “guilt and blame” trip because they can no longer get what they want from you without being held accountable for their actions. Remember, the Bible does support the fact that infidelity is a form of abandonment and breaking of covenant. That being said, do not allow them to convince you that you are required to physically submit your body to them no matter what they do. Although, you have decided to stand for your marriage and God has the power to restore, infidelity is never an acceptable behavior.

“But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved (meaning required or mandated to stay or held responsible for). God has called you to peace.”

1 Corinthians 7:15

Step #2-Safety First

be safe 2It is not ok for your spouse to be sexually intimate with you and someone else at the same time and that fact is supported by the Word of God as outlined above. Even for health reasons, you must cut that off until change happens. No need to feel guilty or accept ridicule from your spouse about withholding as some may try to use the Bible against their spouse to justify their actions, but remember your precaution is supported by God.

Again, standing for your marriage is not about laying down and allowing your spouse to walk all over you. Standing in love starts by being an example of love and wisdom. Continue to stand, but at this time, you must stand spiritually and keep yourself safe and healthy.

Step #3-Let Go.

let go 2Being motivated to love can be hard and scary all at the same time because you do not know what the outcome will be. But, understand in order to fully trust God with the heart of your spouse and your marriage, you must risk all…even losing them.

Shift Your Focus.

Once you have peace with this, you can confidently take your eyes off of your spouse and your marriage. You must start within yourself. You cannot give what you don’t have. You must really dig deep into God’s love, love for yourself and getting back to a healthy version of YOU. Surround yourself with a positive support system and engage in positive activities and entertainment to keep your mind renewed and at peace. My book, Motivated to Love, can serve as a support and guide for you in these efforts, www.motivated2love.com.

Remember if you don’t build yourself up first, you cannot pray, love or stand for your spouse or your marriage consistently or successfully without falling apart.

Planting Seeds.

Remember that even if they do leave and that is final, all will not be in vain! If you truly begin to understand the power and ways of the Lord as outlined in scripture, you know that you will not see a visible victory in every situation, but know that if you allow God to shine through you and use you, seeds will be planted and healing will begin.

“I planted, Apollos watered, but God was causing the growth. So then neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but God who causes the growth.”         

1 Corinthians 3:6-7

We must trust God with the heart of our spouse. We must never try to change their mind, but give them up to their Maker for direction and the deep healing they need to get them out of confusion and darkness. Only God can reach the deep parts of their heart, so let Him. No matter what, confidence and consistency in our love walk is key if it is to lead our spouse back to Christ.

Step #4-Confidence is Key!

be confident.Confidence is very important when standing in the midst of infidelity and drama in your marriage. You will most likely deal with feelings of stupidity, doubt, defeat and even confusion as to why you are even standing for someone who seems to be “off” of you.

I can relate because I was you. I was the woman whose husband said, “It feels more like you are a maid and we are roommates than a marriage. “I was the woman whose husband snickered at me when I continued to say I believed in our marriage and that things would get better. I was the woman whose husband said he didn't love me anymore, but felt he loved another woman. Trust me...I know where you are!

But God!

God restored because I began to understand that spiritually my husband was lost and needed me to allow God to shine through me so he could be made whole and healed! God restored because I did not waver!

Remember as I stated previously, if you choose to hold on to faith in a situation that seems impossible you must not waver in your stance because it will bring even more confusion. If you are going to believe, believe and continue to build yourself up in faith. If you spend more time wallowing in the misery of your situation you cannot walk in confident faith. But, if you continue to overflow your spirit and soul with peace, love, joy, positivity and purpose you will have no choice but to give that vibe off. You will automatically think and rest in God’s promises and your faith because it is what you fill yourself with the most…that is what I did and I am a witness that it works!

Cancel That!

The only way to combat negativity is to learn what vexes you and speak against it. For example if you are hearing in your mind, “I’m stupid for doing this…I want to just quit.” Replace it and mediate on, “God uses the weak things of the world to confuse the wise…I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me!

If you are going to nursing or law school or even preparing for a presentation that could change your life, you would FIND a way to fill your mind with the information you need to be successful and confident in the task ahead. Why not do the same in your pursuit of love and renewal in your marriage?

Step #5-Be consistent.

be consistent 2Say it. Mean it. Do it. In love and with respect. When we are inconsistent in Godly love and confidence when our spouse is wavering, they won’t take us seriously. Our efforts will look just as confusing and indecisive as the behaviors they are displaying.

Remember God is consistent in love, so as we grow in love, we must build ourselves up to be as consistent as possible so our spouses can see the change in us is authentic. They need to realize you are not just being different to get them to change their minds. They need to see the change in you is for your personal growth and this new you is the real you.

Once they realize the change in you is consistent, they will no longer have a reason to blame you or make excuses against you for their shortcomings. They will be forced to look in the mirror and either change for the better or continue to change for the worst.

It’s Up to You.

Remember no matter what, standing strong for your marriage is not bowing in weakness. Love through a place of wisdom. Set boundaries, keep yourself safe, release your spouse to God and remain confident and consistent as you continue to be motivated to love. This journey isn't for everyone because it will cost you your life…your life surrendered to God who is our great teacher of unconditional love.

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Question: What did I miss? Are there any steps that you have used that I did not mention? Or, what step(s) do you need help with the most?

  • Jonsey

    Such Awesome Encouragement…..All these steps given is something positive to ponder over, Thank You!

    • Amanda Taylor

      You are welcome Jonsey!

  • Charlitas Bowman

    I am in the midst of a separation where my spouse has said he doesn’t have the drive to make things work. Mind you, he has been the adulterer all the marriage amongst other things. I made the choice to separate from him in November to have space to heal but I did not give up on him..all of a sudden he has hit me with the ‘i want a divorce. I don’t agree with he decision nor is it what i want. What do i do? I have cut my communication down to just dealing with him as far as our kids plus the baby on the way (of which i did not know i was pregnant until we had seperated). He checks on me via text once or twice a week but i don’t feel obligated to have to respond. Plus he is still messing around with women.

    • Amanda Taylor

      Hi Charlitas. Thank you for your message. If you still believe there is hope for your marriage, remember you can stand spiritually for your relationship and continue to plant seeds of love when you can. When I say plant seeds of love, I mean showing grace and maintaining peace and joy in your heart so when you do interact with him, he sees you are healthy and happy as a person and you want the best for him and your family. When he sees that you no longer depend on him for completeness and joy it will take the burden off him to be everything to you and give God a chance to heal him and soften his heart. Remember no matter what, the goal is for you to get YOU back first because you cannot give what you do not have…keep yourself fill and overflowing and let God work with your husband. Blessings, Amanda

      • Charlitas Bowman

        Thank you Amanda Taylor. That was really encouraging. I strive every passing day to find and work on me. I do believe in my marriage and want it to be restored fully with strength and for it to be better.

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  • Margaret

    Dear Amanda,

    I stumbled on your Facebook page just today when i promised myself to give up on my marriage because i Have a reluctant spouse who has declared and convinced himself that all we need is a divorce and he no longer loves me. He is also emotionally involved with someone else.Listening to your story and that of your husband today, something in me has decided to stand for my marriage because i see me totally in you and my husband totally in your husband. I live in Lagos Nigeria and i know God must have caused your page to pop on my page. Somehow God has revealed to me why i am going through what i am going through. Please remember me in your prayers. I just purchased the e-version of your Book ‘Motivated to love’ and can’t wait to start reading it this evening

    May God continue to bless you and your Hubby.

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    • Amanda Taylor

      Hi Margaret! Your message touched me because I share my story to encourage others and I am so glad you were able to see yourself in my story. God is able to do all things and I am a witness of it! Remember it all starts with you getting yourself to a healthy and whole place because you cannot stand if you have nothing inside to keep you lifted up. Praying for you and your husband. Blessings and love, ~Amanda

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  • Bee

    My husband and I have been together since we were 18. We were married at 23 and we are now 37….a long time. After me not trusting and going through his things I found an inappropriate message from a girl from his hometown and I blew up. After the argument he said “I don’t want to be married anymore. It’s not fun and being with you tired me out” I was speechless. However after days of crying and praying I was made to realize maybe I do tire him out. It’s probably because I’ve always looked for him to complete me. To make a long story short the very next day he walked in and said “I’m not leaving you. I love you but you have to give me a break” Ive been prayin and asking God to strengthen me and make me whole. To teach me to love myself so that I can love my husband the way he deserves to be loved. I am ordering this book tomorrow after I get off from work. Thank you so much for sharing your story and I really look forward to learning more.

    • Amanda Taylor

      Hi Bee! So happy to hear you all are looking to rebuild your marriage! I truly believe the book will give you the encouragement and resources you need to get YOU back and so you have something to give in your marriage. Many blessings to you both, ~Amanda

  • Ce

    I am grateful to your story Amanda and to your book Motivated to Love. It gives me hope. My spouse and I have been separated for 6 months. He left from a heated argument. That I had blamed myself for months the reason why he left. I later found out that he was having an emotional affair and he left because of her. Well needless to say..him and that lady didnt last but since then he moved in with another women..I am devastated and humiliated to the fact if who it is. I really believe that my husband love me but he is really lost. He calls me and text all throughout the day and very active with the kids sports. Throughout the day it feels good between us but it emotionally and mentally mess with me to know he is sleeping somewhere else. I am looking forward to reading your book. So I can find understanding..healing and peace thru this.

    • Amanda Taylor

      Hi Ce, thank you for your message. I am excited that you will be starting the book and I want you right now to focus on your inner peace and healing. Dealing with this type of situation cannot be done in our own strength or without first filling ourselves up because we cannot give what we don’t have. My book will definitely help you redeveloped your foundation with God, within yourself and ultimately with your spouse. No matter the outcome, you must be healthy and strong no matter what. Once we get to a place of consistency within, we can allow God to shine through us to our spouses. God can then more easily reach them concerning the issues and hurts they have deep inside we cannot reach. Hope to connect with you in the group soon. Praying for you and your family. Blessings, ~Amanda

  • Gina Grace

    I too came across your site on Facebook at such the right time. My husband and I were married young, divorced and got remarried. our divorce was due to faults on both of our ends. He wasn’t attentive to me and gain attention elsewhere to get what i was in need of. we divorced for 3 years and got remarries last year. it was nothing but GOD that brought us back together so I know that what we have is meant to be. Our issues we are having now is that He doesn’t or hasn’t let go of the past. I don’t think he has forgiven me for my infidelities as they keep coming up. In our divorce i got the home as we have children. He moved back home 5 years ago and he still doesn’t completely feel comfortable in the home as during our divorce i was dating someone. I totally understand this, but i have done everything to make home anew and comfortable for our family. your site, book and blog has given me so much hope and some guidance on how i should go about repairing my marriage. i want to Thank You for Sharing your story. It has been a Blessing to me.

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    After being in relationship with him for 3 years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the other ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, lotto, his email is DRAISEDIONSPELLCASTER@OUTLOOK.COM you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or any other problem like wining lottery.

    • Unconditional<3-27284

      This is witchcraft. Don’t fall for this form of devil worship. If you have to trick someone into being with you, they are not really yours. I am praying for your eyes to be opened to the kind of evil you have invited into your life. You must seek Jesus Christ to redeem you from this huge mistake you have made by using a demonic medium to get what you wanted.

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        This Monica girl is an idiot. Her marraige will fail again because of using the wrong medium to grant her wish. Interesting she doesn’t have a reply button under her comment as if she doesn’t want any response! There is no such thing as a spell caster as they do NOT HAVE ANY power at all!

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    Where do I begin. My husband and I started living together again after 3 years of separation. During that 3 years he pretty much started a family with another woman. They didn’t have children together, but she already 2 that he decided to play daddy to. We have 2 beautiful sons together and I’ve been trying my hardest to try to play my part in restoration. He went through hell while in that relationship. It was unstable from all angles as she was controlling and has her brothers try to fight him if he attempted to leave her among other things. Plus of course she was extremely jealous of me even more I kept my distance from him unless it had something to do with our kids. He tends to be kind of hard to please, but I’m not even sure if he realizes that. I still love him and I’m still works on the trust thing. Mainly be he recently created a Facebook page and is friends with the ex-mistress and some of her family. He’s not even friends with me. His page is public so i can still access it, but i just don’t see what reason he has for still trying to keep up with her. How do i let him know I know this without making him feel I’m snooping around on him? We live together, but he always tells people that he’s at my house and whenever we have any kinds of disagreement he says that’s why he’d rather be single and have his own place. Mind you I never forced him to move in with me, nor am I doing that now.This is why I do believe he wants to be home, but most of the time it feels more like we are roommates than a married couple. I just want us to move forward as a family and for him to fight with me instead of against. I hope you see this and maybe have a few words of wisdom on the subject. Sorry this was so long

  • val

    Hi I been separated for about 3 years. My husband had an affair with another woman we had some serious problems. Then he got his own place. I end up having to move out of the townhouse. My son for into trouble and was making minimum wages. I had move in with him. Come find out he messing around with his friend that just died wife. She knew me. This woman was calling my phone and going around telling people they married, but they knew they better she is Getting money fRom her husband. He would call me and talk to me alot. She found out he was talking to me. One night he told me She pulled a knife out on him. He even list his good job of 10 years , from calling out being late, his mind seems confused when he first got with her. She is trying to get hi

  • Ashley

    I have a very hard situation. My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We lived together for four and have been married for about 9 months. In August he started having an affair with a woman from work. In September he said he didnt love me anymore and wanted a divorce. Well now he says he loves me but doesn’t want to stay with me. He got this woman pregnant and wants to “do the right thing by staying with her” Here’s the hard part. I have been a mother to his kids for the last 5 years. The bio-mom is a drug addict and doesn’t have custody. So now he wants to take the kids to go live with her and her kid (whose been calling him daddy) it breaks my heart every time he tells me their his kids and he’s taking them soon! I am having trouble letting go, especially since the kids want to stay with me! They do not like this woman and are very upset about everything. He’s been coming 2 days a week to visit us. He says he’s sorry but I had my chance and I threw it away b.c. I didn’t show him enough love the last couple months. It hurts to have him blame me since he was so mean and was ignoring me. We also have been having sex almost every time he comes, I start it most of the time. Thats one problem we never had. We had a great sex life, we just argued to much and lost track of our relationship. So I’ve been praying for a miracle to get my husband back. I love him deeply and have been standing for my marriage since September. I have started begging him to please not take the kids that I have no rights to tho, I try very hard to leave this to God. I really have made some big changes. I lost about 30 pounds and dress to impress. Got a new job. And am going back to school in January. One of our problems is that I always lose my job from being late so I know for sure I need to give this job my all. I feel like once I can show him I can support this family as well he might want to come home. Until then I’ll be praying

    • LaChina Carmack

      Hi Ashley, my husband and I have been married 4 years. Our issues started about a year ago with his emotional infidelities. I found out 4 months ago of a sexual relationship he had been having since December of last year. He left the end of March and though this woman says he moved in with her the moment he left, he says no. He came back at the end of July and at the beginning of August this woman said she was pregnant. He left again the end of September to be with her. I had to pray about this. It was hard. GOD’s advice was to stand. I encourage you to ask GOD for your next move not only in your marriage, but within yourself. Your not alone. My stand is getting better and my husband and I are slowly discussing our next move. GOD’s plan for your life will be done, but not a minute before HIS timing. Stand tall in GOD’s grace and answers on your life. HE is the way.

      • Ashley

        Hi LaChina,
        It feels good to know that I’m not alone in this. I talked to my husband for an hour today. He seemed sad and said he still misses me. He’s coming tomorrow to pay the bills. He’s been so nice with me lately but still refuses to come home to stay. I’ve prayed to God and he’s telling me to just be pacient. Its hard sometimes I just start crying and feel like half of me is gone. I hope that your husband and my husband will be home soon! I will be praying for you! If you need someone to talk to email me deeter240@yahoo.com.

        • LaChina Carmack

          Ashley, I will email you when I get to work. I’ll comment here when I do just in case it goes to spam.

          • Ashley

            sounds good.

          • LaChina Carmack

            Done.

  • Latasha

    Hi Amanda my situation is very difficult I am not married but me and my partner have been together for 12 years lived together 9 we have two sons together. He recently started cheating with a woman he works with and he said he doesn’t love me or want me anymore.I love him and I want to fight for my family he told me he can no longer live with me and says I have to move.Everything in me feels broken trying to figure out what I did so bad in this relationship the things he says really hurt me and he claimed that he was just friend with this woman.I feel if I move then I’m giving up and she will take my place I really could use some advice.I think once we no longer live together there will be no hope of us getting back together.

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  • Becky Walters

    My husband and I have been married for 7 years. Within the 7 years we have been separated many times which is a pattern for us because we have been together since we were 15. We have been separated this time for about a month. He is living with a older women he is claiming is just a friend. I admit the separation is not all his fault I have a hard time forgiving and it makes me angry which pushes him away. I am tired of the back and fourth and I want my husband but I am afraid I may have pushed him away for good. I am standing again for my marriage and I want this to be the very last time I have to stand for my marriage. I am struggling and need some help

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